Blackwidowrose, 49

I Seek A Muse of the Tall & Dark Kind By dark, I mean Darkness. Gothic men are as resplendant sculptures, the taller they are, the more impressive they become; I happen to admire men of tall stature. I have never been one to heed the wish of a man shorter than myself, in fact, it is nearly impossible for me to take someone shorter than myself seriously. Unfortunately, relationships, when one enters their 30's, become complicated and a little rediculous at times. It certainly doesn't help that men truly willing to take charge are becoming more and more difficult to find. Being a dominant female, I require a man more dominant than myself if I am to be handled properly. For once, were I to be relieved of wearing the pants, I would be most graciously happy. There is, however, a major difference between being a spoiled childlike boy and being dominant, a man would certainly know this difference and observe it adeptly.

I prefer intelligent conversations, and I do not like sports. I know a little about many different subjects, and can hold my own in a philisophical or theoretical debate, depending on the subject matter. I am not, however, too proud to learn more about a subject I know little about.

I enjoy many hobbies including Gothic fashion design & construction, interior decorating, wood burning, hammer prints (that will require some explanation), I am currently teaching myself how to make cyberlox. I write Elven fantasy and dark natured fiction as well as poetry, and am hoping to submit one of my works soon. I am a woman comprised of many interests, though I am not at all materialistic (just don't take me to a gothic shoe store, fabric store or Bath and Body Works; you will see in me an easily hypnotized spend thrift). I refused to be spoiled unless I am spoiling myself. It is safer that way.

For my part, I am interested in meeting tall people, making new friends and perhaps finding willing pincushions who wouldn't mind my using their physiques for the construction process of my designs.